Life Is What Happens

Recently, a regular McDermott Footcare client told me that he’s moving to a retirement residence.  This is a surprise to me since he’s told me before that he doesn’t want to leave his house.

A retirement residence is for seniors who are mostly independent but may need minimal help to perform daily activities such as taking their medication and bathing.  Residents have their own suites but share some common areas such as the dining room.  It differs greatly from a nursing home or long-term care facility where people need greater assistance or complete care.

My client, Mr. X, is fiercely independent, generous and witty.  He lives alone, has trouble going up and down the stairs, difficulty bathing and cleaning his house.  He often forgets to eat and take his medications.  His closest relatives live out-of-town but they do the best they can to help him.  They worry about him all the time.

When I visit him for foot care, I ask him if he’s taken his pills that morning.  The usual answer is “no, I forgot.” I hand him his pills and remind him that since he’s diabetic, he can’t wash down his meds with the sugar-laden pop he likes to keep around.  I also remind him to eat.

So, why am I telling you this?  Well, it struck me how quickly my client’s life is changing.  Despite his earlier insistence that he can continue to function in his own home,  in one month his outlook is completely different.

Although we all experience many changes in our lives, I think the most significant shifts take place in old age.  The onset of illness, loss of independence and loss of loved ones take a hard toll on seniors.

I marvel at how my client is handling the impending move.  He’s given me a lesson in accepting life’s inevitable changes.   Instead of wasting time and energy fighting what he can’t control, he’s meeting his challenges head-on with a pragmatic, no-nonsense attitude.

That doesn’t mean he won’t struggle when he gets into his new place.  There will be major adjustments to make.  On top of all the other losses he’s experienced over the past few years, he’ll have to deal with the loss of the home he’s known for many years and the life he had in that home.  It won’t be easy but I believe he’ll be OK.

I wish him all the best.  May you continue to accept life as it comes with grace and dignity, Mr. X.

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Why I Became A Foot Care Nurse

 It’s funny how seemingly random, unrelated events all come together to influence a major career decision.  Former patients, past incidents, personal circumstances all played a role in getting me where I am today.

As an RN working in both acute care and continuing care, I often cared for patients with different conditions.  My focus was always on the medical issues, the post-op complications, the controlled chaos of a busy unit.  Even though I sometimes encountered patients with foot issues, I was unprepared to do anything about them.  Even if I did feel compelled to address their overgrown nails and other problems, I didn’t have the time.

I still remember the first time I saw onychogryphosis nails (toenails that look like curled ram’s horns).  I was a brand new RN working on an orthopedic floor and I was so shocked I stared at the patient’s feet.  I didn’t know nails could do that! They were extremely fungal as well.  That disturbing image has stayed with me all these years. 

Fast forward to about 5 years ago.  My dad had Parkinson’s Disease.  He only allowed my mom to care for him and refused all of my pleading to bring in home care.  Dad’s feet were not as bad as that onychogryphotic patient of years ago, but he needed foot care badly.  Unfortunately, he refused all efforts to have his feet problems addressed and we were powerless to convince him otherwise.

On Christmas Day one year before he passed away, dad slipped and fell on the ice after Christmas Day Mass and ended up in the Emergency Room.  As I was prepping him to be seen by the doctor on call, I took off his socks and he became very upset.  He begged me to cover his feet because he was ashamed of  their appearance. 

When dad was in palliative care in the hospital, two weeks before he died, mom overheard a nurse remark on the awful condition of his feet.  She was certain my dad was neglected at home because his feet were horrendous.  The nurse’s unfair assessment hurt my entire family, most of all my mom.

After dad passed away, I convinced mom to let me hire a foot care nurse for her.  She hesitated at first, even argued and yelled at me the morning of the nurse’s first visit, but eventually she began to enjoy the wonderful care.  I was always present when mom was having her foot care appointments and would watch with fascination while the nurse did her thing.

So what do all these experiences have to do with my career move?  I needed a change from my increasingly demanding job as a visiting nurse in community.  While I loved my work seeing patients in their homes, the pace and hours of my job left me with little time and energy for the most important people in my life, my family.  I wanted to work; I needed to work, but I needed balance most of all.  So, I handed in my resignation despite that fact that I had no other position to go to.

After much thought, and even more prayer, I felt that foot care nursing was something I should pursue.  I went back to school and realized that I really enjoyed my course.  Because I was striving for balance between my professional and personal life, I decided that my best course of action was to be an RN in independent practise – start my own nursing business – as a foot care nurse.

I am very much aware of all the foot care episodes of the past when I visit my clients.  I remember all the patients who would have benefited from foot care; dad’s shame when his feet were exposed; mom’s initial reluctance and eventual pleasure from good foot care. 

My dad has taught me to be aware that some people are embarassed when they first show me their feet.  Many clients are certain that I have never seen anything worse!  (oh yes, I have) Feet are very intimate and people need to feel they won’t be judged if they place this part of their body in my hands.  A level of trust develops between my client and myself as I spend 30 minutes or more talking and listening to them as I do their foot care.  Many times, I will be the only person they see that day.  I may be the only one  to remind them to take their pills, make sure they eat on time and just ask them how they are. 

I enjoy my work – I really do.  The people who hire me,  either for themselves or for a family member, seem to like my work.  They arrange regular foot care visits with me every 4 to 7 weeks. That’s a pretty good indicator!  It’s a privilege to be allowed into clients’ homes and an even greater privilege to be asked to care for their feet.

 

About Nursing Foot Care

 In the world of foot care options, nursing foot care is a trusted, professional, convenient choice for discerning healthcare consumers.   Among the various alternatives available, only Registered Nurses possess considerable nursing knowledge and expertise  in order to provide timely,  holistic care which considers the well-being of the entire person.

As a Registered Nurse specializing in foot care, I hold a Certificate in Advanced Nursing Foot Care from an accredited educational institution.  As well, I update my skills and knowledge through continuing education for Foot Care Nurses.  The College of Nurses of Ontario, the Canadian Nurses Association and the Registered Nurses Association of Ontario regulate my practice as a Certified Foot Care Nurse and require that I adhere to Standards of Practice that apply to Registered Nurses,  Certified Foot Care Nurses and Registered Nurses in independent practice.

As a Certified Foot Care Nurse, I believe in the importance of quality foot care as an integral aspect of my clients’ health.  I recognize that my clients may face certain challenges that make it difficult for them to care for their own feet.  Changes in vision, flexibility, hand strength, coordination and mental acuity may make personal foot care onerous. 

 Conditions such as diabetes, rheumatoid arthritis, osteoarthritis, vascular disease and other degenerative conditions affect the health of the feet.  These conditions will often cause pain, nerve damage, skin problems, as well as circulation deficits.  All of these affect the health  and appearance of the feet as well as a person’s ability to use them.  I am able to address, in a non-invasive way, problems which  may develop.  I typically address concerns regarding thickened and fungal nails, corns, callouses, bunions, nerve and circulation deficits, athlete’s foot and other matters.

As a Registered Nurse, I strive to prevent further foot problems for my clients and to address current issues.  To that end, part of my care consists of providing  clear and simple health teaching which allows my clients or their families to better care for their feet between nursing visits.  If needed, I can also make referrals to other healthcare providers.

Clients who regularly receive nursing foot care express an increased sense of comfort and well-being.  The health and appearance of the feet are restored so that the client may once again participate in social activities and activities of daily living because their feet no longer cause discomfort,  pain and embarassment.  The client or their family is empowered and satisified.